thinking about soulmate au shit, and even though at first i thought ‘books is a bro’ would technically be the first words my partner said 2 me, upon further rumination i realize the first thing would probably count as forum words i read?? so it would probably be about homestuck mpreg or something

honestly it’s funny how often people make villain!deku just kind of. discount!komaeda. i disagree with the interpretation of a villain deku as being discount komaeda, but i guess an interesting thing it DOES do is draw attention to really, how deku is a bit obsessive and fanatical about some things

kind of wish we got more of a deep dive into deku’s canon obsessive martyrdom and how his… desire to be a hero does kind of dip into a lil bit of fanaticism at times

if you think [blank character] was in love with their abuser, that’s gross

[blank character] still has positive feelings about their abuser/doesn’t hate their abuser, so it’s not really abuse

one of those statements tends to be thrown around by antis who don’t like people discussing abuse in fiction. the other is thrown around by abuse apologists.

similarities between those statements? incredibly fucking invalidating for anyone who ever loved their abuser, and incredibly fucking ignorant of how abuse operates like. in general. literally, if you’re going to make either of these statements shut your mouth and think it over and then never say it because neither of those are arguments.