feminismandhappiness:

• there is none
• don’t do it
• they will keep abusing you as a friend
• only this time it may be more difficult for you to notice what they’re doing
• your friendship with them will be used against you if you ever decide to go public with your story
• the energy you invest in taking care of their feelings (because an abuser’s feelings always come first) is energy you should use to rebuild yourself instead
• they will try to confuse you and make you feel guilty. they will use your compassion, don’t fall for it
• THEY chose to abuse you, THEY should deal with the consequences alone
• they don’t deserve your friendship
• just don’t
• they won’t come to their senses and change for the better magically just because you are not dating
• it can actually get even worse when they realize you’re not coming back together
• trust me on this
• 0/10 don’t recommend